We have never had children, the 2 legged human kind, so we can't speak from experience about how that can turn your life upside down, but we sure can speak to raising and training a puppy, and the outside tinkle trips at 1am, 3 am... you get the idea.
So
what have we learned about self-care in the face of a life changing event
First at times you need to weigh the options.
In our case spending quality time training our puppy to be a good girl, and a good walker on a leash is the ultimate goal.
While this meant some of our self-care took a hit, we are looking at the big picture, in this case, soon she will be needing walks twice a day, so what a boost to our self-care program that will be. We are now in full on leash training and its going great! So in this case the investment in time in the beginning, is well worth the long term results.
Penelope will be our daily motivation for walking, and walking at a good pace. There is no negotiating this as doggies need their exercise, and we knew this going in, and is part of our long term self-care program.
Secondly, learning from Miss Penelope Roserrita, when you're tired, take a nap. This is called listening to your body.

I don't know about you, but I was raised with the idea that naps were for babies and the elderly, and certainly had no place in the "land of the living" so to speak. At first it seemed like I was "lazy" or "sloughing off", but then I realized how my personal productivity and energy had gone down due to the sleep deprivation, so I gave napping a try.
What I learned, keep it to a nap, and once you wake, get up don't try and go back to sleep, as when I do it leaves me with that groggy feeling and worse off than before my nap.
So have a nap when you need it, GUILT FREE!
It's liberating!
Remember self-care has many faces, and sleep is essential to living a good healthy life, so next time you need a nap, take a nap, you may be surprised how much better and more productive you are afterwards.
In the next article we will chat further about why it's so hard to get back on track and what to do about it.